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Gone

Posted on | December 19, 2011 | 1 Comment

It seems that most of us know someone who is suffering from Alzheimer’s Disease or some form of dementia that robs them of their mental capacities even as their bodies continue on. Sometimes the disease alters their personality. Other times it simply brings out features that may have been buried while they bustled about with their life. But it is always heartbreakingly hard for the caregivers, for those who love the one who is slipping away behind curtains of forgetfulness. As I reflected on this life path, a few words emerged that I thought I would share with you to capture my own feelings about this difficult life passage.

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Tower whistling at its corners in the wind,

flower waving in a symphony of celebration,

stallion lunging heavy breathing ready for the jump,

tree whispering with patient supplication,

boat slopping over choppy waters, clapping under sail,

seashell crooning reminiscence of the deep,

All gone.

Now nothing

but the wind,

the same familiar wind,

wild,

warm,

enveloping,

blowing over empty ocean,

empty land.

Man still here

mind gone.

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One Response to “Gone”

  1. Stephen Mott
    December 19th, 2011 @ 6:46 pm

    Yes, from my observation the change in personality, sometimes almost a reversal, is very hard. When such a one dies, it is like having lost a loved one twice.

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