A Single Thread
Posted on | February 23, 2010 | 1 Comment
This Blog is meant for occasional professional writings and events, but sometimes the boundaries between personal and public slip away and I feel compelled to write to you about the death of Steve DeGruchy, son of my dear friends John and Isobel DeGruchy. Steve was swept away in a river accident in South Africa and his body has not been found, but he is presumed dead and our grieving has begun. Steve was widely known and admired for his theological leadership in church, community, and at the University of KwaZulu Natal. He leaves behind three children and his wife Marian. As I tried to find words against the cruel silence of our limits, these words made their way out. I share them here.
A single thread in the cloth bag holding our treasures breaks. Our glistening marbles, photographs of younger smiles, the address book, the journal of our inward thoughts, slip through the widening tear. We fall with them, wondering if loving hands will catch us.
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Red Clay, Blood River
February 23rd, 2010 @ 3:08 pm
Bill,
Thank you for this beautiful poem that was birthed from such sadness. It spoke to my own sadness about the death of a friend’s daughter. Our friend, Amy Mears, co-pastor of Glendale Baptist in Nashville, lost her 8 year old daughter in a freak accident last Wednesday night after the Ash Wednesday service. A deer came through the car window and killed her instantly. Her dad and 3 siblings escaped serious injury.
Life is so very fragile.
Thank you for your reflection.
Mercies,
Nancy